Live-In Relationship has become a crazy trend in the last few years. 6 out of 10 couples who are in a relationship is willing to move into a live-in nowadays. Well, few implicate that, live-in helps to know your partner better and few are obsessed with the attraction, whereas few are in love. Nevertheless, when does Live-In, work in favor of Love? Find it out. Below are five radiant pieces of advice from couples who have been into a live-in relationship and are happily married.
1. Yes, if both independently working, No, If Jobless.
If you are working somewhere, only then it is suitable to stay in a live-in relationship. If you are not running the house with your salary and just spending off your parent’s money, well then you are not experiencing a live-in relationship. Live-In relationship is all about finding the compatibility between each other. Financial compatibility is not everything but it is important. Most of the problems that arise will be of financial management, it will either arise today or after a year, or after the marriage. In addition, a couple should know to manage these financial needs. They should learn it at the time of the live-in relationship. If this stage is adapted, the rest are just a piece of cake. Doing a job will help both learn the value of saving and the need of spending.
2. Yes, if your relationship is 4 yrs old. No, if you both met just before few months.
Live In relationships work great if the bond is steaming since 4 years. Getting into a live-in relationship not well informed about your partner might certainly lead to an unwanted tragedy in your life, He/she might have a habit or addiction you are unaware off and it might provoke you to break the relation. It takes at least 7 years to make a euphoric bond; it takes 4 years to understand the habits of one another.
3. Yes if you are aware of your duties and limits, No if your life is a mess.
Live-In relationship might be glorious as you get the opportunity to live with your loved one. However, if you avoid your duties and your limits, it will not take a time to turn the glorious, into a disaster. You are more answerable to your family and yourself when you are into a live-in. So, keep monitoring your limits and get your duties towards your life and career correct.
4. Yes if you understand the importance of Space. No, if Space does not make any sense to you.
Space is a very important element in a relationship. Both of you must have your own space in life. Too much of attachment will only lead to more expectations, and eventually you will end up hurting yourself. So keep a space from each other, spend time with yourselves. For. E.g., he /she might want to stay alone, so just let him/her be. Solitude is necessary. Not always, but, you will need it certainly every day. It is necessary.
5. Yes if you want to experience the relationship, No if you want to experience life.
If you are thinking that being in a live-in relationship is a trendy part of life, then you are in a misconception, the ultimate reason for live-in is to experience the bond you have been in with the other person. Live-In simply helps you to strengthen the bond by correcting each other instead of changing oneself, to teach patience, to liberate control over oneself, space and the respect for privacy to build trust. The purpose of live-in is to work out on ways to encourage each other to build trust and effort. Live-In is not a test of compatibility, it is the understanding of the lack of compatibility and fulfill the lack together with an equal contribution.